Asking for a friend… I spoke to an experienced diaphragm fitter about sex toys, squirting and some very specific fingering methods. A reader recently got a diaphragm and had a few questions for us
Love is a set of feelings and neurochemical changes but it is also NECESSARILY a set of actions, of proofs. “…a mediocre w*nk that just so happens to be..”
What not to do with a condom; the perils of a drunken rebound fling.
I first orgasmed when I was 16 and haven’t until my current boyfriend; multiple times
ever had any worries about sex or orgasms? (care to elaborate)
Yes. Often find it hard to finish from sex or blowjobs.
things you like during sex (or maybe you’re unsure)? I have no idea anymore! I used to love focusing on the pleasure of my partner, increasing their desire and pleasure would turn me on,
Went through a period of anxiety when younger on would I be able to get it up or not. Was I “good enough” at sex, able to pleasure a woman and so on. Thank god that passed.
what do you or have you struggled with in your current relationship / single life?
Finding the intimacy to fully relax during sex, and not be concerned of what they’re thinking
“even insanely stoned munchies were tamed”. More than 80% of men talk in ways that promote anxiety about their body image… The lies that we’ve been sold are that we can all have a ‘perfect’ body
Hearing other people’s trials and triumphs helps us all feel more sane. Share your bush life, get something off your chest and provide insight into what info we would all benefit from.
The contraceptive injection’s primary purpose is to allow people to have ‘safe’ sex. … it’s not really your casual “I just don’t want to get knocked up at a house party” type vibe
Diaphragms are not given the credit they deserve. I had to power through a horrendous hangover whilst being fingered by a Nurse; but getting a diaphragm was one of the best things
“I have used a diaphragm for 20 years – I love it” But what does science say? Diaphragms are very effective as long as you use them correctly. You should be extra careful when
What have you always wanted to know? Maybe there’s something you’re struggling with that you don’t feel comfortable talking about… Perhaps you want some tips on a specific topic…
But this begs the question; if great head comes from someone who is really enjoying giving it, how do you orchestrate that?! … Individuals who report more negative perceptions of their genitals are less likely to engage in oral sex
Do diaphragms interrupt the moment? How should we deal with spermicide? What about vaginal tenting and checking the time.. David from Ethical Family Planning advises that
Why does no one talk about having a Mooncup and getting naked? Here is the review that everyone needs: what life with a Mooncup is actually like. Using one is easy once you have gotten used to it but don’t do what this girl did
Hormonal coils such as Mirena and Jaydess may not have fewer side effects and that’s not all we’ve been mistaken about. “I thought I wasn’t attracted to him anymore…” And why are doctors encouraging them so heavily
What is it and why is this the contraception that every single woman should try? ‘I don’t know why more people aren’t using them’.. more pleasurable than condoms for myself and my partner
How to feel less anxious and more confident: In and out the bedroom with Fitzgerald and Pussy Galore
“If I was a pornstar what would I do…” What we could all learn from Pussy Galore. A novel way of reducing your anxiety and combatting insecurities, that may or may not involve aliens
The ‘ideal’ version of sex is all around us; beautiful and busy. The kinkyness in books, the bragging in… many of us secretly fear that we do not match up… Michael Kimmel asked male college students what proportion of their classmates had sex on any given weekend
Most people have never heard of The Yellow Card Scheme – if you’ve experienced side effects from your contraception you should probably get to know
Doesn’t hormonal birth control protect you from certain cancers and diseases? As well as synthetic hormones being less beneficial than your natural ones, when using hormonal contraception your body becomes accustomed to being fed the synthetic hormones and so once you stop taking them
Which Pill Should You Choose? All are not created equal… As a doctor, he would not allow his daughter to take third and fourth generation contraception…
Is it the Right Option For Your Lifestyle? All the things to consider before you decide to spit or swallow… Find out if you’re one of those who mustn’t take it
All it’s Advantages & Disadvantages… Bad news if you’re an air hostess but good news if you love your white trashy jeans
What even is the combined pill… how effective is it and will it make you feel like you’re in the Swingin’ Sixties?
Lawsuits, James Bond, sacrificial sex; the world of contraception is darker and more exciting than we would first think. But I bet you don’t even know all the options