Don’t watch porn when you’re having the exploratory wanks, because it will interrupt your focus. The more comfortable you are with your own body, the more assertive you can be. Communication is key but only in the right way
Women try too hard to make theirs tiny and cute and soft, whereas men feel like theirs aren’t allowed to be tiny and cute and soft. When in fact, we should all just acknowledge that YES our bits are pretty freaking mad to behold, but they are also lovely.