MIND & STATE

All about being in the best state that you could be: mentally, physically and socially. Or... just be an absolute state. Anything goes here

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Sex is sexy, but it's also awkward and messy; let's talk climaxes, anti-climaxes, waxes & sacks. And the relationships, regardless

CONTRACEPTION

Pick your poison from the drug den and overcome the barriers (tricky, dicky and sticky). Plus find out what half-truths you've been sold

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Let Me Tell You… About the time I had rebound sex and p*ssed out a condom

What not to do with a condom; the perils of a drunken rebound fling.

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BYB: “I miss single life”

I first orgasmed when I was 16 and haven’t until my current boyfriend; multiple times

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BYB: “Loneliness, time to have sex, lack of privacy”

ever had any worries about sex or orgasms? (care to elaborate) Yes. Often find it hard to finish from sex...

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BYB: “Why has my sexual desire disappeared, and how do I reconnect to myself as a sexual being?”

things you like during sex (or maybe you're unsure)? I have no idea anymore! I used to love focusing...

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BYB: “Somebody who you completely trust. Somebody who you care for…”

Went through a period of anxiety when younger on would I be able to get it up or not....

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BYB: “That I’m not pleasing my partner. That I’m taking too long”

what do you or have you struggled with in your current relationship / single life? Finding the intimacy to fully...

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For Anyone Who’s Felt Bad about their Body: What I’ve Learnt from Being Fat + Thin

"even insanely stoned munchies were tamed". More than 80% of men talk in ways that promote anxiety about their...

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below YOUR bush

Hearing other people's trials and triumphs helps us all feel more sane. Share your bush life, get something off...

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what is below the bush?

The place for revealing all that is usually hidden: Secrets, conspiracies and insecurities... Stay sane without denying the madness...

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How to Give the Gift of Good Sex this Christmas: Does it Matter if That’s not My Vagina?

Have you ever considered hanging your private parts up on your wall? We seem to have a few problems...

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Founder: Liberty Sexual & mental health advocate "The crying is done, the porridge is yet to come" Independent graphic...

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Contraceptive injection by @amyccharlton

The contraceptive injection: Will it leave you broken, fat and bleeding

The contraceptive injection’s primary purpose is to allow people to have ‘safe’ sex. ... it’s not really your casual...

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#4 What’s it Like Using a Diaphragm? The Pros & Cons

Diaphragms are not given the credit they deserve. I had to power through a horrendous hangover whilst being fingered...

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Sex, Drugs, Rustle & Roll: Compare each contraception

The most important aspects of each contraceptive - all laid out. Compare all the available options of birth control,...

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#3 Will You Get Pregnant Using a Diaphragm?

"I have used a diaphragm for 20 years - I love it" But what does science say? Diaphragms are...

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The Anonymous Box

What have you always wanted to know? Maybe there's something you're struggling with that you don't feel comfortable talking...

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Do Girls Like Giving Head?

But this begs the question; if great head comes from someone who is really enjoying giving it, how do...

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The Sex Workers’ Freshers Stall at my University; fresh?

If a university is saying look, we know how f*cking skint this is making you, why dont you sell...

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#2 How Do You Use a Diaphragm? When to Put It In, Out & Shake It All About

Do diaphragms interrupt the moment? How should we deal with spermicide? What about vaginal tenting and checking the...

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I Didn’t Want to Write This. But Here it is by Popular Demand: My Mooncup Review

Why does no one talk about having a Mooncup and getting naked? Here is the review that everyone needs:...

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3 Things We’ve All Got Wrong about The Coil (including your Doctor)

Hormonal coils such as Mirena and Jaydess may not have fewer side effects and that's not all we've been...

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#1 The Sceptical Lady’s Guide to the Diaphragm: Why does EVERY Woman Need One?

What is it and why is this the contraception that every single woman should try? 'I don't know why...

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How to feel less anxious and more confident: In and out the bedroom with Fitzgerald and Pussy Galore

"If I was a pornstar what would I do…" What we could all learn from Pussy Galore. A novel...

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Keeping up with the Joneses: Is Everyone Else Having More Sex Than You?

The ‘ideal’ version of sex is all around us; beautiful and busy. The kinkyness in books, the bragging in......

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Wish There Were Better Contraceptive Options? Here’s 1 Thing You Can Do Right Now

Most people have never heard of The Yellow Card Scheme - if you've experienced side effects from your...

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You Could Never Regulate Me: Is Hormonal Contraception Good For Your Periods?

Doesn't hormonal birth control protect you from certain cancers and diseases? As well as synthetic hormones being less beneficial...

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Tales of a Younger Me

He told me that actually, silly girl, it was the boys and the cannabis that had caused my depression,...

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The Guide to Choosing a Pill that won’t Result in a Billion Dollar Lawsuit or a Trip to A&E

Which Pill Should You Choose? All are not created equal... As a doctor, he would not allow his daughter...

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3 Ways to Check Whether The Pill Suits Your Lifestyle

Is it the Right Option For Your Lifestyle? All the things to consider before you decide to spit or...

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The Pros & Cons of The Pill: What Your Doctor Would Never Mention

All it's Advantages & Disadvantages... Bad news if you're an air hostess but good news if you love your...

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